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The Reconnect Deck: a terracotta box beside a hand fanning pink-bordered question cards on an ivory background

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Reconnect Deck

For: Couples craving closeness

For when life's been full and you've drifted a little. Some of these questions go deep, on purpose, to help you talk about what matters and feel close again.

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Talk about the things you've been putting off
Remember why you chose each other
Plan the next chapter, together
Three categories: Rediscover, Envision, Recommit

Specs

Deck: 150 cards, 3 categories, cards 5.75 × 8 cm, premium cardboard with gold foil
Deck box: 7 × 7.5 × 8.5 cm
Recommended for adults (18+)

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Your questions, answered by couples

Real reviews from real customers, picked to answer the questions couples ask us most.

4.9 average rating

My partner won't be into it
…Thankfully, my husband was willing to give it a go and it's been a lovely way to remember why we were attracted to one another 16 years ago…
Ms L.Reconnect Deck
We're too busy for this
…After having 2 kids we don't get much time spent with each other and now on Friday nights we share some cards with each other…
Mitch H.Reconnect Deck
Will he actually join in?
…She pulls the cards out whenever I'm engrossed in a good action type movie. … relearning how to be a patient, loving husband is something I never expected to experience at my time of life..
ROGER R.Reconnect Deck
How deep does it go?
Beautifully made cards, great questions, some deeper than comfortable. Really great item.
Olga R.Reconnect Deck
Too heavy for us?
…I like the easy to more challenging questions, it's very engaging, entertaining and thought provoking.
Jacqui O.Reconnect Deck
We're always on our phones
…Less screen time and more meaningful time spent together.
Ashley G.Reconnect Deck

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Some of these questions are deep, and that's the point. If you'd like an easier start, begin with Rediscover & reflect, or pair it with the Go Deeper Deck.

Reconnect Deck

If one of us notices the other slipping into old habits (like dismissiveness or stonewalling), how should we respectfully call it out so we can correct course immediately?

Recommit & refresh

Reconnect Deck

Honest, deep, warm

Gentle questions for talking about what you each need.

150 cards
3 categories

Is this you?

Sound familiar?

We feel more like flatmates than partners lately.
Since the kids, we barely get time alone.
We keep having the same argument.
I miss how we used to talk.
There are things we've never properly said out loud.
We want to feel like a team again.

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Five decks, five moods. Here's how they compare.

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Compare Decks
	Go Deeper Deck	Reconnect Deck You're here	Laughter Deck	Forever Deck	Dating Deck
Best for	Long-term couples who want to learn something new	Couples who've drifted and want to feel close again	Fun nights in, as a couple or with adult friends	Engaged couples and newlyweds	New couples and early dates
Vibe	Curious, nostalgic, deep	Honest, deep, warm	Cheeky, bold, silly	Thoughtful, practical, future-focused	Flirty, curious, revealing
How deep it goes	Light to deep	Leans deep, on purpose	Light and cheeky	Everyday to big-picture	Light to getting serious
The 3 categories	Now & Then · Looking ahead · Uncharted territory	Rediscover & reflect · Envision & evolve · Recommit & refresh	Icebreakers · Confessions & Curiosities · Boundary Pushers	Values & Communication · Day to Day · Intimacy & Wellness	Light & Lively · Passions & Perspectives · Future Hints & Relationship Intentions
Great for groups?	Made for couples	Made for couples	Yes, with adult friends	Made for couples	Made for two
Pairs well with	Laughter	Go Deeper	Go Deeper or Forever	Laughter	Laughter
Questions	150	150	150	150	150

For long-term couples

Go Deeper Deck

Best for: Long-term couples who want to learn something new
Vibe: Curious, nostalgic, deep
How deep it goes: Light to deep
The 3 categories: Now & Then · Looking ahead · Uncharted territory
Great for groups?: Made for couples
Pairs well with: Laughter
Questions: 150

For feeling close again

Reconnect Deck

You're here

Best for: Couples who've drifted and want to feel close again
Vibe: Honest, deep, warm
How deep it goes: Leans deep, on purpose
The 3 categories: Rediscover & reflect · Envision & evolve · Recommit & refresh
Great for groups?: Made for couples
Pairs well with: Go Deeper
Questions: 150

For fun nights in

Laughter Deck

Best for: Fun nights in, as a couple or with adult friends
Vibe: Cheeky, bold, silly
How deep it goes: Light and cheeky
The 3 categories: Icebreakers · Confessions & Curiosities · Boundary Pushers
Great for groups?: Yes, with adult friends
Pairs well with: Go Deeper or Forever
Questions: 150

For engaged couples

Forever Deck

Best for: Engaged couples and newlyweds
Vibe: Thoughtful, practical, future-focused
How deep it goes: Everyday to big-picture
The 3 categories: Values & Communication · Day to Day · Intimacy & Wellness
Great for groups?: Made for couples
Pairs well with: Laughter
Questions: 150

For new couples

Dating Deck

Best for: New couples and early dates
Vibe: Flirty, curious, revealing
How deep it goes: Light to getting serious
The 3 categories: Light & Lively · Passions & Perspectives · Future Hints & Relationship Intentions
Great for groups?: Made for two
Pairs well with: Laughter
Questions: 150

How it's built

The EMBRACE™ System

Every Pakk is built on EMBRACE™, our psychology-backed map of seven parts of a close relationship.

E for Emotional intimacy:

Feel known and understood by each other.
- Reconnect
M for Mental stimulation:

Keep discovering how each other thinks.
B for Boundaries + alignment:

Get clear on what you each need and expect.
- Reconnect
R for Rituals:

Make regular room for each other, without big plans.
A for Appreciation:

Feel noticed and valued for the little things.
C for Communication clarity:

Find the words for what matters.
- Reconnect
E for Exploration + play:

Have fun and try new things together.

How it works

How a Pakk night works

Step 1: Open up
Pick a quiet moment, any night of the week.
Step 2: Pick a card
Read a card aloud and take turns answering.
Step 3: Take turns
Stay light or go deeper when it feels right.
Step 4: Keep going
Use the little extras to act on what you learn.

Good to know

Good questions, answered

Do the questions go deep?

Some do, on purpose. Every deck starts light, so you choose how far to go.

What if my partner isn't keen?

Start with a light card and take turns. Some of our favourite reviews started that way.

How long does a Pakk night take?

One card can take five minutes. Some nights it turns into hours.

Can we keep using it?

Yes. There are 150 questions, and your answers change as life does.

Is the Reconnect Deck only for couples who are struggling?

No need to be in a hard place. It's for any couple who's been busy and wants to feel close again. Some questions go deep, so take your time, and skip any card that doesn't feel right tonight.

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Scott B.

We have only looked at it once so far, saving it for when its quiet & we are living separately so it is a matter of planning it in advance, but baby steps for us, the questions we did ask each other made us smile straight away though & really think about how we felt at that time :-)

Scott

On time & we have opened the box & started talking

Shelley C.

I love the cards they are amazing

David N.

Haven't really had the opportunity to really engage with the cards but did ask a few questions of each other and look forward further discovery and engagement.

ROGER R.

Yes... Well now I have to talk to the wife.. She pulls the cards out whenever I'm engrossed in a good action type movie. Not only learning to talk to the old girl but also relearning how to be a patient, loving husband is something I never expected to experience at my time of life..

David W.

The cards in their box are a good fit in most decor so can be kept at hand but still private. We have started slowly and find it difficult after 40 years together to remember many of the early day details but it certainly gets us rediscovering times in the past. It will be an interesting journey.

Lisa W.

We have started using the reconnect and go deeper decks and really enjoy them! We choose a card each, tape then into a little journal, and we each write our thoughts before talking about it.

Janie S.

It’s going to be great, Thanks

Kathryn S.

Early days, but positive so far

Jacqui O.

Looks great, beautifully packaged and arrived not long after purchasing. I like the easy to more challenging questions, it’s very engaging, entertaining and thought provoking. Great way to reignite or learn new things about your partner. Thank you!

Jan P.

Quality product which arrived very quickly :)

Shelley a.

Excellent, thank you!

Ashley G.

Now this is a good idea! We are enjoying working our way through the deck. Less screen time and more meaningful time spent together.

Gill E.

Nice for initiating nice chats about past good experiences. Affirming.

Mark R.

Thank you for the order. My wife and I have started using it and we love it.

Lisa

Great product! Woukd buy another different set next time!

Jade T.

Good!

Craig F.

I haven’t used them yet sorry My partner and I are going on a holiday soon and thought it would be a little something to reconnect and have fun with Thank you xx

John W.

Cards are great, but mostly it was the customer service that surprised me in the best way possible. In today's world great customer service is a rarity, but when there was a very slight delay in one of the order processes, we recieved an email straight away and were looked after so well we couldn't help but feel like a real, valued customer. Thanks again for the great cards and amazing service. (PS I never leave reviews but felt this was exeptionally handled)

Mitch H.

This has really bought great communication to my wife and I relation ship . After having 2 kids we don’t get much time spent with each other and now on Friday nights we share some cards with each other and gets the conversation rolling over a few wines . Highly recommend

Ms L.

I purchased the Pakks cards to bring some 'life' back into our relationship, to open more meaningful conversations and hopefully reconnect. Thankfully, my husband was willing to give it a go and it's been a lovely way to remember why we were attracted to one another 16 years ago and to have conversations that put some spark back into 'us'. We still have work to do but this has been surprisingly easy and I can see and feel the results already. Thank you!

Angela H.

Cant wait til sit down with my Husband over a platter & wine when he returns from a few months away working

Brett F.

Product arrived on time and the process was very easy.

Olga R.

Beautifully made cards, great questions, some deeper than comfortable. Really great item.

Deborah M.

Good range of question prompts

Kimberley M.

Great little too early to make a lot of comments but so far so good really well thought out Much appreciated Kimberley

Caroline H.

Perfect questions to get the conversation started & raise topics that are new & unexplored.

Alyson B.

Awesome idea & a great way to relearn about your partner and what they think/value. Excellent purchase! Fast delivery & a good price

Carolyn W.

great

Anna K.

Although delivery of my order was initally delayed, once the items were received, the cards themselves are a great conversation starter. I am looking forward to enjoying the benefits of using these questions to strengthen my relationship.

Linda O.

Thank you!! Loving the cards!

Angela W.

If you’ve been looking for a gentle way to reconnect, this is it. No cringe, no pressure—just thoughtful, useful prompts that get you talking again.

Joanne C.

Controversial review... I'd been thinking that my 8 year marriage had taken its course. We were young when we married and our lives hav gone in different directions. I got these cards not as a way to reconnect, but to try and see if we should even still be together. It became obvious very quickly that my gut was right. We split up, actually, but we're both really happy now and realised through some tough chats that this was the better way forward. I know they're meant to bring you closer, but for us they worked magic in a different way.

Christopher D.

Got these as a gift (not sure what they were trying to tell us hahaha). They sat on our coffee table for a while and then one night my partner cracked them open and it became verey obvious why they were gifted to us. Got us chatting about some things that we've both been holding resentment over

Carlos D.

Relaly good, hard questions but ones that need to be asked

Siddy E.

I’d seen it online and wasn’t sure if it’d be another Instagram gimmick. It’s not. You can tell it was made by someone who really understands relationships. And they're beautiful!

Elizabeth B.

it’s not magic, but it gave us a moment to choose each other again. that alone makes it worth it....

Charli L.

I was sceptical but the pacing of the questions is really thoughtful. You don’t dive into the deep stuff straight away—it warms you up first and reminds you why you fell in love. Tricks you into being positive before you go into the tougher stuff!

SImone

A few of the prompts hit really close to home. We needed to talk about those things, but didn’t know how. Now we do.

Jason H.

I wish we had this years ago. We’d have avoided so many arguments. Still have a long way to go but this is easier than going right to therapy which we didn't want to do

Kayla L.

Full on but really good. My therapist recommended these because we've been going through a 'challenging season' for lack of better words... If you don't have the cash for therapy, we found these to be really helpful to dig into some of the harder topics that nobody wants to bring up. And actually, the last section forces you to think about solutions, not just how you feel which is what has been most helpful for us. WE don't have the notebook but I wish we got it so we could have written some of these things down.

Melissa C.

Love. 5 starts. every relationship needs these!

Sammy

Some of the questions were confronting—but in the best way. We didn’t argue. We listened. That felt huge.

Shawn J.

It’s weird how something so simple can be so impactful. I think we were both scared to admit we were drifting. These cards gave us a bridge back. I think most of my male mates would be reluctant to get these because the lads are the best at talking, but these are pretty good.

Virginia S.

Our attachment styles are totally mismatched (I'm more anxious, he's avoidant). This deck met us in the middle. It felt safe for both of us.

Tom L.

The questions go a bit deeper than we were used to, but in a good way. It helped me understand my wife’s perspective in a way I hadn’t before.

Ash L.

Far out, definintely didn't expect the rollercoaster of emotions that these brought on but it was VERY clear we needed this. She bought them but I'm the one who doesn't talk much and it was nice to not have to come up with something to say.

Jazzy

What a beautiful idea. We all need a little more of this in our lives. Recommend. And beautiful packaging.

Charles M.

My partner rolled his eyes when I brought it out, but ended up pulling more cards than me by the end. It’s structured in a way that doesn’t feel awkward. Just... real. It gave us a path back to each other. These are pretty gay friendly too which was cool. We weren't sure what to expect.

Tracy B.

This deck helped us name things we’d been tiptoeing around. Nothing explosive, just honest. Like we could finally exhale and stop pretending things were fine.

Rich

It was either this or another silent dinner. I’m glad I picked this.

Oksana T.

Nice quality and fast shipping. good questions but kinda intense so get ready. we like them but defo k now that it's not light chat for these. the laughter deck is better for that but these are better to help if you are having some ithings you need to work through.

Diego

I'm a guy and I think we're usually seen as the ones who struggle with emotions. But yy partner is the one who's emotionally avoidant and wasn’t sure how this would go down But the way the questions are structured made it feel less confronting. She actually opened up and we noticed that having something to prompt discussion that isn't one of us nagging the other sort of felt like a third unbiased person in the room.That helped to keep things less emotionally charged and more solutions focused. We also have the notebook and write down some things from time to time so I can just kinda point that out rather than reminding her what we said we were going to do. Love this idea and think it could really help other secure/avoidant partners.

Michelle B.

So I'll start by saying that I didn't really understand what these cards were when we got them. But after we pulled a few cards with the reminders of why you love each other or whatever, it was so nice to revisit the early days. And it was really cool because we had a big fight a few days later, and that conversation helped us repair faster becuase those reasons why we love each other were so fresh in our minds. We're not far into the deck yet - it looks like the questions get a bit heavier - but I'm looking forward to it. I really think these are going to help us talk through some of the elephants that have been sitting in the room with us for a while.

Tiff

Honestly didn’t expect this to work. We’ve been distant for a while and nothing really seemed to help. I pulled one of these cards after dinner one night and somehow we just... started talking. Properly. First time in weeks.

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Your questions, answered by couples

My partner won't be into it

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Will he actually join in?

How deep does it go?

Too heavy for us?

We're always on our phones

What couples say about the Reconnect Deck

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Compare Decks

Go Deeper Deck

Reconnect Deck

Laughter Deck

Forever Deck

Dating Deck

The EMBRACE™ System

E for Emotional intimacy:

M for Mental stimulation:

B for Boundaries + alignment:

R for Rituals:

A for Appreciation:

C for Communication clarity:

E for Exploration + play:

How a Pakk night works

Step 1: Open up

Step 2: Pick a card

Step 3: Take turns

Step 4: Keep going

Good questions, answered

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Reconnect Deck

Want it gift-ready? Make it a Pakk

Your questions, answered by couples

My partner won't be into it

We're too busy for this

Will he actually join in?

How deep does it go?

Too heavy for us?

We're always on our phones

What couples say about the Reconnect Deck

Try a few real cards

Reconnect Deck

Sound familiar?

Compare Decks

Go Deeper Deck

Reconnect Deck

Laughter Deck

Forever Deck

Dating Deck

The EMBRACE™ System

EE for Emotional intimacy: Emotional intimacy

MM for Mental stimulation: Mental stimulation

BB for Boundaries + alignment: Boundaries + alignment

RR for Rituals: Rituals

AA for Appreciation: Appreciation

CC for Communication clarity: Communication clarity

EE for Exploration + play: Exploration + play

How a Pakk night works

Step 1: Open up

Step 2: Pick a card

Step 3: Take turns

Step 4: Keep going

Good questions, answered

Hear from more couples

More from Between Us

How to Reconnect With Your Partner When Things Feel a Bit Off

What to Do When Your Relationship Feels Like a Roommate Situation

The Best Conversation Starters for Couples (That Actually Work!)

E for Emotional intimacy:

M for Mental stimulation:

B for Boundaries + alignment:

R for Rituals:

A for Appreciation:

C for Communication clarity:

E for Exploration + play: