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The Dating Deck: a dusty-blue box beside a hand fanning charcoal-bordered question cards on an ivory background

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Dating Deck

For: New couples, from first dates to first months

Skip the small talk. 150 questions for the early dates and first months, when you want to find out who someone really is.

Flirty
Curious
Revealing

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Dating Deck
Decision Dice · 2 wooden dice
Travel Pouch · vegan leather

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Skip the small talk on early dates
Find out what matters to them, sooner
Fun first, deeper when it feels right
Three categories: Light, Passions, Future Hints

Specs

Deck: 150 cards, 3 categories, cards 5.75 × 8 cm, premium cardboard with gold foil
Deck box: 7 × 7.5 × 8.5 cm
Recommended for adults (18+)

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Real reviews

Your questions, answered by couples

Real reviews from real customers, picked to answer the questions couples ask us most.

4.9 average rating

Too early for this?
Fantastic product, used it on a second date, created great conversation 👌🏼
Robert O.Dating Deck
Will it feel like an interview?
…I'm not really someone that loves surface level questions, so these have been so useful and not to mention so much FUN. My date on Sunday night said "you have really stood out to me by the questions you've asked to get to know me"…
Amanda F.Dating Deck

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In their words

What couples say about the Dating Deck

Inside the box

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Dating Deck

What has surprised you most about me so far?

Light & Lively

Dating Deck

Flirty, curious, revealing

Playful to revealing questions for getting to know someone new.

150 cards
3 categories

Is this you?

Sound familiar?

Every first date feels like a job interview.
We've been seeing each other a while, and I want to know more.
I run out of things to ask by dessert.
I want to know if we want the same things.
I'm back dating after a long time.
Texting is easy, but in person goes quiet.

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	Go Deeper Deck	Reconnect Deck	Laughter Deck	Forever Deck	Dating Deck You're here
Best for	Long-term couples who want to learn something new	Couples who've drifted and want to feel close again	Fun nights in, as a couple or with adult friends	Engaged couples and newlyweds	New couples and early dates
Vibe	Curious, nostalgic, deep	Honest, deep, warm	Cheeky, bold, silly	Thoughtful, practical, future-focused	Flirty, curious, revealing
How deep it goes	Light to deep	Leans deep, on purpose	Light and cheeky	Everyday to big-picture	Light to getting serious
The 3 categories	Now & Then · Looking ahead · Uncharted territory	Rediscover & reflect · Envision & evolve · Recommit & refresh	Icebreakers · Confessions & Curiosities · Boundary Pushers	Values & Communication · Day to Day · Intimacy & Wellness	Light & Lively · Passions & Perspectives · Future Hints & Relationship Intentions
Great for groups?	Made for couples	Made for couples	Yes, with adult friends	Made for couples	Made for two
Pairs well with	Laughter	Go Deeper	Go Deeper or Forever	Laughter	Laughter
Questions	150	150	150	150	150

For long-term couples

Go Deeper Deck

Best for: Long-term couples who want to learn something new
Vibe: Curious, nostalgic, deep
How deep it goes: Light to deep
The 3 categories: Now & Then · Looking ahead · Uncharted territory
Great for groups?: Made for couples
Pairs well with: Laughter
Questions: 150

For feeling close again

Reconnect Deck

Best for: Couples who've drifted and want to feel close again
Vibe: Honest, deep, warm
How deep it goes: Leans deep, on purpose
The 3 categories: Rediscover & reflect · Envision & evolve · Recommit & refresh
Great for groups?: Made for couples
Pairs well with: Go Deeper
Questions: 150

For fun nights in

Laughter Deck

Best for: Fun nights in, as a couple or with adult friends
Vibe: Cheeky, bold, silly
How deep it goes: Light and cheeky
The 3 categories: Icebreakers · Confessions & Curiosities · Boundary Pushers
Great for groups?: Yes, with adult friends
Pairs well with: Go Deeper or Forever
Questions: 150

For engaged couples

Forever Deck

Best for: Engaged couples and newlyweds
Vibe: Thoughtful, practical, future-focused
How deep it goes: Everyday to big-picture
The 3 categories: Values & Communication · Day to Day · Intimacy & Wellness
Great for groups?: Made for couples
Pairs well with: Laughter
Questions: 150

For new couples

Dating Deck

You're here

Best for: New couples and early dates
Vibe: Flirty, curious, revealing
How deep it goes: Light to getting serious
The 3 categories: Light & Lively · Passions & Perspectives · Future Hints & Relationship Intentions
Great for groups?: Made for two
Pairs well with: Laughter
Questions: 150

How it's built

The EMBRACE™ System

Every Pakk is built on EMBRACE™, our psychology-backed map of seven parts of a close relationship.

E for Emotional intimacy:

Feel known and understood by each other.
M for Mental stimulation:

Keep discovering how each other thinks.
- Dating
B for Boundaries + alignment:

Get clear on what you each need and expect.
- Dating
R for Rituals:

Make regular room for each other, without big plans.
A for Appreciation:

Feel noticed and valued for the little things.
C for Communication clarity:

Find the words for what matters.
- Dating
E for Exploration + play:

Have fun and try new things together.

How it works

How a Pakk night works

Step 1: Open up
Pick a quiet moment, any night of the week.
Step 2: Pick a card
Read a card aloud and take turns answering.
Step 3: Take turns
Stay light or go deeper when it feels right.
Step 4: Keep going
Use the little extras to act on what you learn.

Good to know

Good questions, answered

Do the questions go deep?

Some do, on purpose. Every deck starts light, so you choose how far to go.

What if my partner isn't keen?

Start with a light card and take turns. Some of our favourite reviews started that way.

How long does a Pakk night take?

One card can take five minutes. Some nights it turns into hours.

Can we keep using it?

Yes. There are 150 questions, and your answers change as life does.

How early is too early?

Most people use it from the first few dates onward. Light & Lively is easy for early on, and Future Hints & Relationship Intentions is there when you're both curious about what comes next.

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Charlie F.

We really liked

Amanda F.

As someone who has returned to dating after divorce, I wanted some assistance to really get to know not only the men I was wanting to date, but to filter out those on dating apps that I didn’t want to date. This pack has been INCREDIBLE, I’ve gone on a few dates now after building connections on hinge (filtering in some of these questions), and my god the dates have been the best dates I’ve been on. I’m not really someone that loves surface level questions, so these have been so useful and not to mention so much FUN. My date on Sunday night said “you have really stood out to me by the questions you’ve asked to get to know me” Legit, if you’re dating or even if wanting to rebuild the spark, these are amazing!

Robert O.

Fantastic product, used it on a second date, created great conversation

Nic B.

Gg

Melinda G.

Pakks -1, my date - 0... the emotionally available card came up and he couldn't cope. I found out very quickly there would not be another date.

Ernest J.

Gave these to my mate because he has no game. He loves them but not sure much else

Roddo

Good

Emily S.

Wasn’t expecting much from this, to be honest. I’ve been dating casually and kind of over it. But I took this on a road trip with someone I’ve been seeing and we ended up pulling it out after a few wines one night. Some questions were silly, some were super deep, but it was the first time I felt like we really saw each other. He told me things I don’t think he’d ever shared before, and I did too. I think it gave us both permission to just drop the walls a bit. It didn’t feel forced—it just kind of worked.

Alexandra

My mates got this for me because I'm chronically single and really picky. I'm still picky, but these are great because I can get to know the person faster and deeper without making them feel like I'm doing an interview

Lacey B.

Cute - barman got involved too

Amy A.

I’m usually terrible at first dates — I overthink every little thing and it ends up being this awkward back and forth that doesn’t go anywhere. A friend gifted me this deck as a bit of a joke but I brought it out on a coffee date anyway. It changed everything. I felt like I could just relax. We weren’t stuck in “what do you do for work” territory. Instead we were laughing, reflecting, getting curious. I don’t think I’ve ever felt that seen on a first date. I’m definitely bringing it again.

Sergio A.

Good conversation starters. I'm not much of a talker and girls love when I bring these along. I did have one bird accuse me of being lazy haha but can't please them all

Mary L.

I got these after seeing an Instagram ad for them and have used them a few times. I really like them - good questions!

Sean R.

A nice way to mix up the conversation. recommend

Ro

Love the funny ones, some surprising serious ones but they are the ones that help you see who's really sitting across from you. fast shipping, really nice packaging. cute

Kelly G.

Great questions and always get lots of looks at the bar - i've recommended these to a lot of people

Laura

Takes some pressure off on dates. I get really nervous and most people are keen to go through some of the prompts, probably because it takes pressure off of them too. I've had some really nice chats with these. Recommend!

Roger J.

This helped me feel confident on a first date when I usually get super awkward. Having a structure weirdly made it easier to be myself.

Ella B

Bought this with zero expectations and ended up having the best night I’ve had in ages. It gave us a reason to actually listen to each other.

Jenny

I was going to lose my shit if I had to answer what I did for work one more time. What a freaking refreshment to have new things to talk about. Love love loveeeeee

Michael S.

Kinda weird to introduce at first but most girls are keen and it makes me look great because it seemsl ike nobody actually asks them real questions on dates

Stephanie M.

I bought this for myself and used it on a few dates—honestly such a vibe shift. Made things way more fun and meaningful.

Nic

Lowkey wish I had this when I was dating more seriously a few years ago. Would’ve saved a lot of time!

Lauren K.

Not just for dating either—I used it with my best friend and we got into some really interesting stuff.

Michelle W.

We used this on a wine and pizza night and it was the best conversation we’ve had. Some questions were light, some caught us off guard—in a good way.

Diana N.

Helped me realise what I actually value in a partner. Really useful if you’re someone who struggles to articulate feelings.

Deborah M.

I've been single for 5 years. Let's just say the apps are a nightmare and the people on them are even worse. I saw an ad for these and was seriously desperate for a quality date. I'm SO over wasting my time on bs dates. Some people are more open to them than others, but that is actually a great way to filter haha. But they've helped me enjoy my dating more (I'm still single...) and hope that eventually I'll find the one. In the meantime, I like hearing more interesting things on my dates

Amy

I brought this on a third date with someone I’d only met once before (the second date was a bit awkward tbh) and I was kind of nervous. I just casually pulled a card out after dinner and said “Wanna try this?” — and that one card turned into two hours of actual, proper conversation. Not small talk. Not weird silence. But stuff like what excites us, what scares us, what we want out of life. I think we both surprised ourselves. It just made everything easier. Now we’ve been seeing each other for almost two months and it feels different in the best way.

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The EMBRACE™ System

E for Emotional intimacy:

M for Mental stimulation:

B for Boundaries + alignment:

R for Rituals:

A for Appreciation:

C for Communication clarity:

E for Exploration + play:

How a Pakk night works

Step 1: Open up

Step 2: Pick a card

Step 3: Take turns

Step 4: Keep going

Good questions, answered

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Dating Deck

Want the extras? Make it a Mini Pakk

Your questions, answered by couples

Too early for this?

Will it feel like an interview?

What couples say about the Dating Deck

Try a few real cards

Dating Deck

Sound familiar?

Compare Decks

Go Deeper Deck

Reconnect Deck

Laughter Deck

Forever Deck

Dating Deck

The EMBRACE™ System

EE for Emotional intimacy: Emotional intimacy

MM for Mental stimulation: Mental stimulation

BB for Boundaries + alignment: Boundaries + alignment

RR for Rituals: Rituals

AA for Appreciation: Appreciation

CC for Communication clarity: Communication clarity

EE for Exploration + play: Exploration + play

How a Pakk night works

Step 1: Open up

Step 2: Pick a card

Step 3: Take turns

Step 4: Keep going

Good questions, answered

Hear from more couples

More from Between Us

Deep Questions to Ask Your Partner (100+ That Actually Spark Connection)

12 Date Night Ideas at Home That Don't Feel Boring

The Best Conversation Starters for Couples (That Actually Work!)

E for Emotional intimacy:

M for Mental stimulation:

B for Boundaries + alignment:

R for Rituals:

A for Appreciation:

C for Communication clarity:

E for Exploration + play: